out of line?

I thought I was justified in what I was saying and she just didn't want to listen to me. She blocked me at the end, classic.

me:	hey michele
ShellyBell873:	hey
me:	how are you
ShellyBell873:	fine you?
me:	i'm alright
ShellyBell873:	that's good
me:	yeah
me:	had a rough day or two though. yesterday i realized it had been exactly a year since me and lauren lost our virginity to each other :|
ShellyBell873:	i don't remember what day i lost my virginity
me:	i just remembered because it was on our 3 month
me:	and yesterday was what would have been our 15 month
me:	and then today i just saw that he posted on her wall and that's just a little stab at me.
ShellyBell873:	why?
ShellyBell873:	all he said was to smile
me:	i mean
me:	i didn't mean he was taking a stab at me
me:	but it hurt, just another reminder that they're basically with each other
me:	and i'm just in this pain by myself. i don't want her to be in pain but i don't like feeling alone like i have this whole month, alone in my suffering through this
ShellyBell873:	you'll be fine...i promise
ShellyBell873:	just get through it the best you can
ShellyBell873:	try to keep your head up
me:	lord knows i'm trying
me:	i'm failing
ShellyBell873:	for a while you might
me:	i can't stand to see them together
me:	and i never will
me:	and understand that no matter how good a guy you think he is, he knew exactly what he was doing this whole time, and he certainly was not "worried" about breaking us up
me:	and he doesn't give a shit that he did and he's happy he did
me:	btw make sure she knows not to ever let me see him/them in person
ShellyBell873:	that's not right
ShellyBell873:	you need to calm down about the eric situation
ShellyBell873:	and leave it alone
me:	what i'm saying in regards to his intentions is true
me:	it really is naive to think otherwise
ShellyBell873:	regardless, you're sounding a little crazy
me:	god i'm not going to get violent
ShellyBell873:	doesn't matter
me:	yeah, it does
me:	if i was going to get violent about it, that would obviously be bad and i would hope someone would stop me/calm me down
me:	i'm not going to though
ShellyBell873:	well you sound like you're on your way there so be careful
me:	i'm not
me:	pardon me being pissed at him
ShellyBell873:	HE WAS NOT THE FUCKING REASON SHE BROKE UP WITH YOU
ShellyBell873:	GET THAT INTO YOUR HEAD
me:	look
me:	that doesn't matter
ShellyBell873:	yes it does
ShellyBell873:	b/c you keep blaming him
ShellyBell873:	for your sadness
ShellyBell873:	and pain
me:	let me clarify
ShellyBell873:	you can't hide how you feel but i'm saying you need to take a step back and look at things
me:	i believe it that if things were fine between me and her this wouldn't have happened
me:	i know
me:	that being said
me:	i am sick and tired of hearing how he had nothing but good intentions
me:	and how he told her he was "worried" about coming between us
me:	and how he has not been pressuring her
me:	you realize everything he did and said was what she would want to hear
me:	of course he wouldn't pressure her, that'd be fucking stupid
me:	and of course he's going to sound apologetic for having feelings for her
me:	but it's like this
ShellyBell873:	all of those things don't matter at all
me:	yes, they do
ShellyBell873:	no they don't
me:	i can guarantee you
ShellyBell873:	b/c like i said
me:	guarantee you
me:	if i was his friend, he wouldn't have done this to me
ShellyBell873:	he didn't do anything to you
me:	and if you do something to another guy that you wouldn't do to your friend, it's a pretty shitty thing
ShellyBell873:	he did nothing to you
ShellyBell873:	nothing at all
me:	he didn't stop talking to her or hanging out with her
ShellyBell873:	why should he
ShellyBell873:	they're friends
me:	but it wasn't innocent to him
me:	it never was
ShellyBell873:	ok you need to stop
ShellyBell873:	and think about what you're saying
me:	you need to fucking understand
me:	i have thought about it